Do this... But don't do this...
Back in the day... they knew what love was... Christian values were actually enstated... dating wasn't associated with what it is today... Guys didn't have their girlfriends over for days at a time, just to sleep with them... they didn't move in together until AFTER they were married... they didn't say i love you unless they actually meant it... they asked the fathers permission to date the girl... there was a level of commitment that sadly the generation that we are in has lost... The girl was RESPECTED (honestly to all the duece-bag guys out there... WHAT THE HECK ARE YOU DOING?! hurting her is going to get you nowhere! Ok, rant aside) Chivalry was still alive and well... and Dating was actually done with the thought that maybe it could end in marriage... How many of you are just doing it to get cheap thrills? get what you want out of them and then you're done? A) you're a jerk... and B) Way to ruin her for someone else... How many of you girls are just using him because you want your hand held or you want someone to call you baby? Because you don't want to be labled single? because you are just wanting to get your "needs" satisfied and then you want the next best thing?
Really? What has this generation come to?
Call me old fashioned if you want.
Back in the day when there was a "CODE OF CONDUCT," there was a black and white... there were do's and don't's... and if you crossed that, well... let's just say i you better hope that you were a fast runner...hahah, No! you were dead meat! Seriously i know from talking to my grandmother, Her dad was not afraid of going to jail to protect his daughter.... To protect her honor... and i can tell you if my grandpa would have stepped over the boundaries my great-grandfather had set up... I'm pretty sure i wouldn't exsist haha.
But also back then.. Chivalry and respect were important... Men held doors open for their dates... paid for the meal... walked the girl home or up to the front door... actually listened to her and cared about what she had to say... spent time with her family to get to know them more... sometimes even spent time working for the girls dad (how many guys are willing to do that today?) helped the mother with dishes or even sometimes cooking... (just a side note for the girls... if he is willing to do all of that... and he respects you for you not who he "Wants/excpects" you to be... he may be a keeper.)
I wish things were like that today honestly... because i see too many guys being jerks to their girlfriends... and too many girls doing things behind their boyfriends back.... too many couples having kids out of wed-lock... too many hearts being broken... too many backs being stabbed.... no fidelity.. no commitment...
STOP IT!!!! GET SOME PERSPECTIVE!!!
I'm thankful for the way that my girlfriends dad is going about things... sometimes it is hard to understand but i appreciate the way that he is treating me dating his daughter and the way that he talks to me and asks me questions... sometimes it's hard to read him but still i really do appreciate him and respect him...
So Mr. Knudson if you're reading this thank you :)
But yeah... Um if i offended anybody... sorry it doesn't really bother me all that much... im sorry that you were offended.. but, these are my beliefs and thoughts... if you don't agree with them.. that's fine... i don't expect you to agree with me... I just thought i would throw what i believe out there....
if you have any comments please do by all means i would love to here what you say.... if you have arguments though.... do not put them as comments... send me an email... tell me who you are and i would be more than glad to talk to you about it...
To E-mail me: fusesandtimedelays@hotmail.com
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